Dear Working Mama
Dear Working Mama,
You are balancing a lot, and the pressure to get it all done can feel insurmountable. It may seem that all the other mamas out there are getting it all done and still managing to look put together. I can't speak for everyone else, but looks can be deceiving. I've said it before, but the to do list is never quite done and something has to give. Over time I have learned that there are two important things that help me get through it all and maintain my sanity.
The first thing I need more than anything is waking up before my family. As much as I'd love to sleep in or stay in bed reading, it's not what helps me get my day going smoothly. Ideally I should wake up 30 to 60 minutes before my family, and most days it's unfortunately closer to 30. Having that time to myself to get ready without my daughter pulling on me or "helping" me get ready is almost magical. It's a great feeling to be ready for the day before my husband or daughter begin to stir. Any curves that may come my way are now much easier to dodge.
Next and most important thing I need is grace. Grace that I give myself and above all the grace of God. Each and every day I can be so hard on myself, but I remind myself that I'm loved and forgiven. This reminder is easier to find when I take time to read scripture and pray to start my day. It's really easy to not make time for God, but when I do my day goes SO MUCH SMOOTHER. Lately, I even spend this quiet time win God before doing my make-up. I know that sounds crazy, but that time has become crucial for me. What makes your day go by smoother may be different, but these two things have been game changers for me. You might not be able to do it all, but take time to figure out what will sustain you through what you can get done. I hope that no matter what you do give yourself grace.
A mama paddling along next to you
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