Are you good at taking care of yourself or at making yourself a priority? If you're anything like most women that I know, the answer is probably no. We all talk a big game about how we're going to exercise more, eat better, drink more water, and take more bubble baths (or other relaxing activities). But at the end of the day it doesn't happen, and it's all just a lot of talk. I'll be the first to admit that I am not always the best about self-care, but it's something I'm continually striving to be better about. I'm also someone who encourages those around me to be better about caring for themselves too. This is why wellness is recurring theme on the 91 rewind. Today we're going to talk about the why and the how of making self care a priority.
Why do we need to make this a priority?
- Your body NEEDS exercise for your continued health and well-being
- Your body NEEDS to rest so that you can be refreshed and renewed
- Your mind NEEDS you to continue learning for increased memory
- Your mind NEEDS to rest so that it continue to learn
Are you noticing a trend about our minds and bodies? I don't think any of us want to see our bodies become weak, out of shape, or unhealthy. Just as we want our bodies to be healthy, we also don't want to see them overtaxed and unable to continue. In the same vein, we'd like to think that our minds will remain sharp as a tack, rather than forgetful. In all of this finding balance is key, and requires commitment on our own part. How we each go about taking care of ourselves might be different, but it still needs to happen.
How are we going to make this a priority?
- START making yourself a priority .
- Make exercise and learning a part of your routine.
- Find something that interests you and learn more about it.
- Practice the art of saying no.
No one else is going to make you stop, rest, and care for yourself if you are not willing to do it. The people who love you and care about you might encourage you to slow down, but they most certainly cannot make you. What if you started saying no to the things that are keeping you from doing what you need to do for your own self-care? Far too often we're afraid to say no to someone out of fear for how the other person will feel, but we fail to think about how this will make us feel. What if you did say no from time to time?
I've had a friend recently say that she generally focuses on the destination not the journey. Like myself, and many other women I know, she's constantly on the go and not the best at slowing down. Now due to a recent injury, she has HAD to stop running at full-speed, slow down and enjoy the journey not the destination. How different would life be if we allowed ourselves to focus on the journey AND the destination? This could look like your schedule being less chaotic and full of things that bring you the most joy. In the realm of self-care, this would look like taking care of yourself being the norm, and not something special you have to do
Where can you make exercise, rest, and learning part of your routine?
Coming Soon: specific ways we can care for our bodies, brains, and more!